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Hi, I'm Jamie.

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I'm crazy about music.

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The thing with my uncle was confusing.

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I knew that what my uncle was doing
wasn't right.

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But I didn't exactly know
what it was because...

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Actually nothing really bad happened.
I thought.

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There was a kind of tingling
that actually felt pretty good.

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But at the same time I didn't like it.

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I mean, his hand between my legs?

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No, that's not okay.

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I didn't want to visit my uncle anymore.

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I asked my dad if his brother
had done such weird stuff before.

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He didn't answer.
He was busy with something or other.

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Later he came to me with questions,
but then I was done with it.

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I had long since googled
"abuse" and "uncle".

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Maybe Dad had realized something. Anyway,
I don't have to go to my uncle anymore.

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Dad organized day care for me.

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It wasn't close by, but it was okay.

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It was new,
with a disabled toilet and stuff.

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And there was
a really nice social worker, Reza.

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We go outside a lot. To our "race track",
as we call the wheelchair trail.

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She talks
about the bad experiences she's had.

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People tease her for her skin colour
and because she's a girl.

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I told her about myself too.

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About my record collection,
my uncle, the smoking.

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Eventually I told her
about him touching me.

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She asked me how it made me feel.
She said: "He isn't allowed to do that.

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That's sexual abuse."

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We're considering whether I should talk
to my Dad about it or someone else.

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But I'll make that decision later.
Now I'll keep practising guitar.

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Bye, guys.

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Hey, this is Isso. I'll summarize again.

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What Jamie's uncle did
is sexualized violence.

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It's a crime.
Jamie's dad isn't listening to Jamie.

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Maybe he doesn't want to know about it.
People often don't want to hear that.

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But that attitude means
that sexualized violence remains hidden.

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Thankfully there are
great social workers like Reza.

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They can talk with children
and young people about what to do.

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Who would you talk to if something like
that happened to you or a friend of yours?

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You can call the number 116 111.

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It's also here on the website
if you need it.

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Bye, from Isso.